Summertime and the living is easy…or so they say for us single folks. For whatever reason when the heat comes, that means no one wants to be in a relationship. No one wants to be “boo’d up” but yet in my opinion I feel like the summer is when everyone starts feeling extra flirty! We may not be in the club but I still feel like we want to tell a “shawty to swing my way” So today I want to talk about just that. Before people were out here “shooting their shot” we had songs like “Swing My Way” where K.P. straight up said “then I walked over to him slowly, said I know you don’t know me but this might be my only shot at a tenderoni.” (all while Enyvi was giving us R&B runs in the background) But I digress. While I know our mama’s taught us “you don’t chase a man” and “don’t make it so easy” which of course is 100% true, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with us ladies taking the initiative to get our flirt on. I didn’t say propose to the man (which if that’s your thing kudos to you, but it’s not something I’d ever get on board with) I simply said flirt. I didn’t say run behind him or force a relationship I said…Flirt! If your feeling someone then let him know! Beyoncé said “Shawty what yo name is” and dammit Beyoncé hasn’t let us down yet lol. So while the summer usually doesn’t mean “relationship time” it does give you time to brush up on your flirting skills. You never know where it may lead….From Jaime With Love
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